Being objectified and harassed sucks, but I still disagree. Dealing with creeps sucks, but you’re far better off being attractive as a man or a woman than being ugly or plain. I’m on the spectrum and I’m certainly at risk of being exploited, but if you’re an unattractive autistic male, you’re severely disabled and you have a monumental struggle ahead of you. I still believe that disadvantaged males and incels don’t have enough empathy for girls who are attractive. We might be able to get dates but we also have to deal with serious predators who will abuse us once we’re alone.

If you’re an unattractive autistic male, you’re going to be completely screwed for jobs. I have older friends who work and they got hired at the same time as girls their age and they got dumped into jobs like bagging and denied promotion because they aren’t attractive and they’re denied social skills.

The dangers that come with being an attractive girl are literally life threatening but it’s still understandable why there are boys who think that it’s worth it from their perspective.